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Saturday, December 14, 2019 – Dawsonville, GA
Chase glances over at Abigail, making a face, which immediately causes her to giggle back in response.
“You’re so adorable,” he comments as he scoops her up in his arms. “Did you know that your daddy’s little favourite princess?” The comment just causes her to giggle that much more. “Daddy loves you so much…”
He then places a kiss on her cheek, to which she tries to repeat doing in return to him. He takes her into living room, sitting down on the floor with her, as the toys are spread out all the way around them.
“It’s just me and you tonight baby girl,” he says as he hands her the teddy bear.
Letting out a sigh, it was actually a surprise to be home on a Saturday night with just his little girl in the house. He actually couldn’t remember the last time when there was nothing absolutely going on, and he had the whole house to himself. Usually, Sarina was at least home with him – but she had gone out that night with Samantha and Morgan.
Although he wished that he could be spending the night with both of his girls, he wasn’t about to complain. It was nice to get some extra quiet time with Abigail as he wanted to savor every moment possible. It was also nice that Sarina was getting to spend some girl time without any reservations as well.
Chase quickly checks his twitter feed once again, though can only laugh as he looks back up at Abigail. She had once again found the mirror on one of her toys, and was making faces, babbling to herself. Chase could only smile in response, taking a small video, as it was simply the most little adorable thing – and her latest craze it seemed.
“It seems that looking at herself is more better than company than me,” he sends back to Ryan with the video attached.
“Who can blame her?” Ryan responds shortly thereafter, causing Chase to just roll his eyes.
“I should send a text to Daniel and Bubba to both kick your ass. Miss you buddy.”
“Miss you, too, should’ve come.” Chase lets out a sigh, as he remembered when Ryan originally told him about the trip.
However, at that time, there were still a lot of decisions to be made – whether Sarina was running the chili bowl, going through with the hysterectomy which was still possible. He also knew the focus they wanted to begin taking on the adoption process, and on themselves as well as it was nice to finally get a break after everything they had been through.
Taking a deep breath, while he knew there could’ve been some fun memorable times with friends and the weather would’ve been nice, it was a good break right now doing things as he had chosen. Besides, another glance towards Abigail and he knew he wouldn’t give up this time for the world.
Saturday, December 14, 2019 – Charlotte, North Carolina
“We seriously need to do this more often,” Samantha comments as she sits down at the table, returning from a quick trip to the bathroom.
The girls had a fun day hanging out, doing some last minute shopping that Morgan wanted to do ahead of the wedding – in case she didn’t get a chance with the forth coming trip to New Zealand. She wasn’t the only one with bags, as Sarina and Samantha found some nice things as well.
They then headed to one of their favorite dinner spots in town, obviously indulging in some desert as well.
“I forgot how much fun we had together, if I’m being honest,” Morgan adds, to which Samantha nods her head in response.
“Let’s make a pack that we do this at least once a month – no matter what’s going on,” Samantha offers, to which both Morgan and Sarina nod their heads in agreement. “I actually really appreciate this, though….”
“You know we’re both here for you and Kyle no matter what happens,” Sarina comments, placing her hand on top of Samantha’s lightly, to which Samantha glances over with a sly smile.
Since the reveal to the world at the banquet about the multiple failed IVF attempts, it seemed that everybody had been reaching out to comfort Samantha and Kyle as they felt bad for what they were enduring. Sarina, already having known before others, had made sure to assure Samantha once again that she was there in case she needed someone else to talk to.
Though Samantha had also learned that with just one viable egg left, the doctor wanted her to proceed down the surrogacy route for the best chances possible.
“I appreciate that,” Samantha replies as she takes a deep breath. “I just never thought I’d be in this position. I want to believe that I can do this, Kyle and I can do this as we’ve fought through so much together – but it brings forth new unknowns. How do you trust someone with the last chance that you have?” Sarina and Morgan both nod their heads, understandingly.
“I honestly don’t know if I could do that, actually,” Sarina admitted. “I thought about it – as you know, but can I trust someone that I don’t know to carry my child? I feel like I’d be over hovering, over worried, and just in secure about the whole process. It’s kind of why I steered away from that and Chase and I went down the adoption route.”
“Kyle and I have talked about that, too, as we’d love to have a sister for Brexton. For me, I want to try the options that we have together – do what we can, because I guess for me, it’d mean more if it’s truly a piece of us together. But certainly, adoption is an option – and actually, not a bad one.” Sarina smiles as it was nice to have a voice of confidence.
“Have you began the process?” Morgan wonders, to which Sarina nods her head.
“I met with Alycia and we went over everything that it entails,” she begins. “You wouldn’t believe some of the ridiculous things that you have to do and follow if you want to adopt a child. I mean, I was almost wanting to roll my eyes as she detailed everything for me. But I don’t see any problems forth coming…” She then takes a pause, though, not able to shake the small feelings about a couple tiny aspects in the back of her mind. “So she gave me some information about some adoption agencies – their fees, what they entail, and how they go about the process. It’s just choosing which we want to go with and beginning that process.”
“Have you made a decision yet?” Samantha wonders, to which Sarina shakes her head no. She knew that her and Chase needed to take the time to sit down and discuss that.
“And if I’m being honest, we haven’t totally closed off the door to surrogacy as well. I mean, as I told you the reasons that I stated were why I closed the option for now – but we haven’t totally wiped that off the table. I still have eggs frozen should we want to go down that route.”
“I remember that….”
“Have you tested the gender yet?” Morgan wonders, hoping that she wasn’t overstepping the boundaries.
“Since we haven’t decided to go down that route, I haven’t gone through because why bother?” Sarina responds, though had some curiosity about the findings. “If we were to go down that route, then I probably would want to do that because it’d be nice to know in case Chase and I want to decide either way. Actually, he kept talking before about having this dream – a little girl and a little boy. That’s why sometimes I envision the baby that we lost being that boy.” Sarina takes a deep breath, as she feels a couple tears come to her eyes, with Samantha reaching over to rub her back.
“It’s okay to be emotional,” she says quietly, knowing the feeling herself. “The pain doesn’t just go away as it’s always with you, just gets easier to handle over time.”
“There’s comfort, too, in knowing that Casey and Victor are with him, like he’s our guardian angel with a pair of angels to watch him.” She then rolls the sleeve of her t-shirt up a little, barely revealing the tattoo that adorned her shoulder. “Chase and I got matching shoulder tattoos earlier this year of the butterfly.”
“That butterfly is the sweetest thing,” Morgan comments with a smile. “I remember the first time that Christopher and I walked over to you and I noticed it on the racecar by your name. My heart swarmed a little…” Sarina couldn’t help but smile in return as the butterfly certainly was a nice touch to have there all season long.
“Chase designed it and he surprised me before the season with it there,” Sarina begins, chuckling a little as she thinks back to last February. “There was talk of a number change, which obviously we know the 9 now, so he turned that into a bit of a surprise with Dale – and then showed me the butterfly then, too…..”
Wednesday, December 18, 2019 – Charlotte, North Carolina
The entire day had been filled with a bunch of chuckles from one end of the JR Motorsports to the other. It seemed once again their Christmas Party had been a big hit with all of the employees.
As everybody shared drinks, the laughter and jokes couldn’t be contained as everyone scanned each other’s outfits. Sarina admittedly was impressed by plenty of choices as it seemed everybody had gotten creative. She admired a couple of the complete Christmas sweater suits, chuckled at one of the crew member’s making a joke at Dave with theirs, and laughed at the one to where the crew member wore simply a mirror with a caption below.
Though in return, she got some comments in return from her chosen outfit. Considering the crazy cat lady meme was the thing being shared from one end of the world to the other, why not include that?
“I am almost scared to make a comment to you in case that kitty yells back at me,” Kelley comments as she checks out the appearance before her, to which Sarina chuckles in return. “Please tell me that you don’t act like the cat with Dave.”
“I wanted to a couple times this year,” Sarina admits, causing a couple shocked expressions before her. “But somehow, someway, I think I’ve grown to love the guy.”
“She isn’t too shabby of a driver herself,” Dave comments, wrapping his arm around Sarina.
“I just want to say thank you for the chance to drive for you, and have this oppor-”
“Listen, you don’t need to thank me every time that you see me,” Kelley starts with a smile. “You’ve definitely earned your keep here as you had an incredible rookie season. I can’t wait to see what you have to come in year two.” They then watch as she walks away, ready to meet up with the next person.
“She isn’t the only one that can’t wait,” Dave comments, catching Sarina’s attention as she can only smile in response. “I can guarantee that we will be holding a checkered flag by season’s end.”
“I like your theory Dave,” she replies back in response, taking a long sip of her Caesar. Thanks to Erin convincing her to try one, it seemed that was her drink of choice now.
“I was actually surprised to see you here, and drinking for that matter.” Sarina then looks at Dave with a mix of confusion and shock.
“A girl can have a bit of fun….” Dave nods his head, not willing to argue that fact.
“I thought you’d either be bed ridden or a little sore, or at least off the alcohol due to pain killers…” She then lets out a sigh, knowing exactly what he was referring to. “I know you mentioned it to me in case it interfered with meetings and getting ready for next year, but I’d assume that either you chose to not do it, or it went surprisingly a lot better than you expected with a record recovery time.”
“Actually, you’re wrong on both accounts…” Dave then glances at her with a bit of confusion. “I’ve had a hard time deciding whether I want to do this or not. I’ve thought about the chances of perhaps getting pregnant down the road and trying again, or the chances improving based on research and studies. But on the flip side, I thought about what I wanted for my future and the pain that I’ve dealt with forever every month. Some days I’d say I absolutely want to do this, and other days I’d say I absolutely don’t; there were days that I couldn’t decide.”
“Did you ask Chase for his advice?” Sarina nods her head, remembering those discussions.
“He told me his opinion and what he felt that I should do, but then told me that at the end of the day, it’s my body so it’s my decision – even if it’s affects our future in regards to children. Just like he always does, he told me that he’d support me no matter what I decided.” She then takes a deep breath, remembering the phone call that she made, and the appointment that followed. “I’m done contemplating and wondering, as my mind kept bringing me back to one decision no matter how I looked at it or contemplated things. It’s why I told Christopher that I wasn’t running the chili bowl originally. I am going to do this, and go through with the hysterectomy. It’s actually scheduled for Monday. I was going to tell you so you’d understand if you don’t see me until late Janua-”
“Don’t even worry about that, Sarina. I don’t even care about that right now.” He then tightens his grip around her shoulders a little. “All that matters to me is you’re happy with your decisions, and getting to do what you want. All that matters to me is that you’re healthy and everything is going smoothly. So I want you to focus on that – focus on what happens Monday, focus on your recovery, building strength, and getting through that smoothly. Then we can worry about everything together. I can get things ready for Daytona without you having to be there every day. Just focus on yourself, okay?”
“Yes sir.”